Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Dr. Yuvraj Kapadia: One has a choice to the experience & not the route it takes to reach !!!

Here we are with a absolutely empowering possibility, a possibility of choosing whatever we wish to experience. The question now is, we have the right to the experience... sure, but are we wiser than the universe in telling the universe in what format do we want the experience? This is where most of us get jacked!So, what we do not realize is that we incarnate in an environment that the universe has chosen for us to learn something or become wise and very often that environment if it is hostile, tends to make you to want to change the environment.

Strangely, believe it or not, you will expend the maximum energy of your life in trying to change that with absolutely zero result. So, what is that the universe is trying to communicate to you? The universe is trying to tell you that the environment is communicating, for you to accept the wisdom from it and change your response to yourself to experience a different experience. But most of us expect that the same environment will change and that is an absolute screw-ball !!!If you wish to experience abundance, you have a right to experience it, but does that mean that the abundance must come to you only through the stock market because you are a stockbroker? I have had innumerable cases of stock brokers who went through cycles and cycles of bankruptcy simply because, their ego got hurt when they lost money for the first time, me included, and they are desperate changing their response so that the same stocks which ate away their money will give them the money back. But that is an ego trip, you are not truly changing your response. It is the ego hitting back changing your response with a vested interest that the area from where you got the pain is what will give you pleasure. What we are not figuring out is the area which is giving you pain is the universe talking to you saying clearly that it is not your area. But we try even to change our response so that we can convert the same pain into pleasure. Can that happen? It can never happen, because if fire burns, it burns, there is no way under the sun that you can convert it into ice. It cannot happen, because, it is the property of fire to burn. If you are taking this knowledge with the hope that you will change the response so that your current painful environment will become pleasurable, forget it. You are wasting your time !!! Absolutely !!!You have the choice of experience but let the universe decide how it wants to give you that experience. You can experience whatever you want, you can experience money, you can experience love, you can experience any single abundance of resource which you would like to experience provided you submit that experience as a petition to the universe, understand you are the universe's favorite child. The universe will give you that experience but you must be open enough to let the experience come into your life the way the universe wishes to give it to you. And when the universe wishes to give it to you, the universe will bend backwards to make it happen for you !!!So, an absolutely easy way of understanding whether what you are asking for and what is being granted to you is a part of universal grace or not, is by checking how easily you are attracting the new experience. The more effortless the experience becomes the more the universe has a hand in giving you that experience.

I have in my career as a therapist experienced so many clients who are so very desperate for their husbands to love them or their wives to love them or their children to love them and my simple question is what is it that you want? Oh, we want to experience love, all right, so tell the universe I wish to experience love, and be prepared for it. You will never know who will come into your life to give you love. Does the love only need to come in a format "abc"? Is love so pathetic and so restrictive that it is the trademark policy of social norm for love to come only in one format? Especially when the format is giving you pain? Does not work dude! So just sit, think and have faith in yourself. A lot of people get stuck here.

One more thing, since you have the titular right to the experience, and since in the eyes of the universe there is no time and there is no space, the way to attract that experience in your universe is to feel it in your heart as if it is already happening. So, if you wish to experience love in your life, start behaving as if you are the universe's most loved child, because the way you will behave with yourself is exactly the way the universe will behave with you. So if you are harsh with yourself and you keep feeling that you the unluckiest person, then that is exactly what the universe will give you. If you wait for the universe to give you a series of lucky events to happen before you begin to believe that you are lucky, then sorry, doesn't work! So, start treating yourself as your top priority, you are the world's most loved person by yourself. So what if in this moment other people are not loving you! Love yourself, unconditionally, are you not your most important person? Believe you are the best for yourself, believe that you are luckiest for yourself, believe that you are God in motion who has come on this planet to experience its magnificence. Drop your programming and watch, how the universe bends backwards, in its own unique way to give you that experience and of course having got that experience don't get seduced by its permanency. There is no such thing on this planet as permanent. What starts will end, what is good today is bad tomorrow, the wisdom is to completely live every moment of your life. It lies in completely living every moment of your life perhaps as if it is the last moment or the last day of your life. This is a very ancient teaching that I got from a Buddhist monk, who would often tell me that Yuvraj, one of life's easiest ways is to put a placard in your pocket which simply says today is the last day of my life. Watch how your response to yourself will dramatically change with that. So, if you live every moment of your life assuming that it would be the last moment and you do only those things which gave you total, pure, undiluted self acceptance, go ahead and do it. Formula for winning, formula for enjoying the win, loosing comes in the way once in a while, how does it matter? End of the day, loosing is a format of winning differently! Ok?

So,

1. Accept what's happening in your life as a universal sign of change

.2. Become the change yourself for yourself

.3. Open yourself to the universe for the experience you so richly deserve.

Then perhaps, you will be sitting on a video like this talking to millions of people, who knows,

best of luck.

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